"Just don't tell anyone where I've gone, that's all I ask," Joel says with a laugh. Most of the time people are too busy interacting with each other and drinking wine to really notice whether he's there or not, but he's certain there will be a few people looking for him. There's one princess in particular who's been particularly vocal about her hopes that Joel will choose her and while she's very sweet, he couldn't imagine his life with her even before Spencer.

"No one else seems to want to spend any time in the library during a party, so I should have that working in my favour," he continues. "I can't imagine anyone will come looking for me there."